Quick clarification, if you have a very imaginative spouse, and the side sex isn’t as good that might not be the case for you but let’s face it. Repeat sexual intercourse with the same person can become boring.
Let’s be real. No need to be pretentious, and be Nigerian in this, which is being judgmental about it all. How it is against the law of God to even have sex at all. Even though statistics have revealed that over 70% of Nigerians participate in pre-marital sex. Let’s just save it and have a conversation about this.
Like anything you do
constantly, it tends to get boring. Having sex with the same person is
one of the standard requirement of being in a relationship with someone,
when it goes on for a while, the sex becomes rather normal, drag or
even not good any more, this can then in turn lead to seeking for sexual
innovation. Finding ways of getting better sex, making it more
interesting, reports Zeynep Yenisey, Maxim.
If
new ways are not found to make the sex better, the experience continues
to depreciate, the chemicals in the body don’t react like they used to.
The brain floods the body with less amount of dopamine, which in turn
make it less and less for one to be interested in sex. It will take away
the desire.
Jumping from partner to partner is almost second to nature.
When this happens,
the body naturally seeks other adventures, wants to conquer new
territories, the psychology of the human mind. Here is a kicker, when
you lose interest in sex, it can come back by hooking up with other
people. A new conquest can bring back the desire for sex. There is a
name for this, it’s called the Coolidge Effect, named after a former U.S
President Calvin Coolidge. It was observed while the President and his
wife visited the government farm, and noticed how chickens were hop on
each other around.
Here is what happened, while
they were looking around the farm, Mrs Coolidge found a rooster who was
apparently hoeing around with different chickens. She asked the
attendant how often it happened, and the reply was that it happens a lot
of times in a day, say dozens of times, which is a lot.
She
then prompted the attendant to give this information to the President
when he comes around. When he heard, he queried if it was the same hen
every time which he answered, different hen, different times, then the
President asked the attendant to give his wife that same information.
Romance with someone new always gets the hotter.
I feel the attendant
was being pushed around a lot of the time, and was being dragged into a
personal squabble the couple were having. That’s how the Coolidge Effect
works. To further buttress this point, a study found out that men that
were exposed to the same kind of porn for a period of time lose the
stimuli, and got less and less aroused as time went by. On the flip
side, the guys who were introduced to different porn record even higher
level of arousal.
From another study, it was
discovered that after watching the same porno for a few days and
switching it with a different one produced different results, men came
faster and had improved sperm count.
“This suggest
that the Coolidge Effect may have an evolutionary explanation behind it
in that it might potentially increase men's odds of reproductive
success with new partners,” explains sexpert Dr. Justin Lehmiller.
A new sexual conquest always proves to improve libido
You might think it
doesn’t apply to human relationship, but being in a relationship for a
long time can make for some bored sex, and for full effect. It doesn’t
mean there is anything wrong with your spouse, we’re all just naturally
sluts/hoes. This isn’t meant in a disrespect manner.
For
people who don’t want to step out on their spouses, you can keep up the
fire by introducing sex toys into the mix, and for some people who have
agreement with their spouse, to have open sexual relationship. A little
something called consensual nonmonogamy. The world is full of weird
people, just make it work.
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